Thursday, 31 October 2019

A Walk in the Woods and a Hand Me Down Jacket

On me and Rudi's day off, we headed up into the woods with my Grandparents dogs to enjoy one of the last days of October. It was also a perfect excuse to bring out this wool plaid coat/shirt/jacket...shacket? That was handed down to me from my sister (thanks Rosie!). It's great to be able to wear and enjoy something that someone else has stopped finding a use for. Me and my sister may have very different styles, but there's always times when we swap and hand things down to each other which is nice!





It's a more oversized, masculine style than I would usually choose myself, but I really like how loose and cozy it is and how it dresses down any outfit. It also fits nicely in with the rest of my wardrobe as it's plaid, which is very autumnal, yet the colour palette is neutral - so it pretty much goes with everything.




I absolutely love this time of year - It's crisp enough to bring out the jackets and coats, but there's not yet a need to wrap up in hats and gloves like you're on an arctic expedition. Recently, I've been wanting to spend more time out in the countryside, patiently waiting for all of the leaves to change colour! With the nights getting darker so much earlier now, It's hard to not feel a bit sluggish and tired and I find that getting out for a walk helps.




I can't wait to get out and take more photos, and appreciate the changing of the seasons at the same time. Once November comes around, I'm in full Christmas mode! This year I want to be much more conscious of my consumerism, and as part of that I'm going to attempt No-Buy-November. This means I'm going to avoid buying any clothes for myself for a month and if I find something I really have to have, I'll put it on my Christmas list (if I cave in and buy it for myself, I have to wrap it up!) This challenge may not be doable for me, but we shall see...!
As much as I've always loved shopping second hand for myself, I've never delved into the world of second hand present-buying, but this year I'm going to give it a try and see what I can find for my friends and family.



Jacket - Hand me down (Charity shop/unknown brand)
Jeans - Depop (Zara)
Boots - Depop (Urban Outfitters)

Photos by Rudi

Wednesday, 9 October 2019

Charity Shop Jeans

I stay in my lane when it comes to jeans. Since the return of the high-rise waistline, I've loyally stuck to it. From the comfort of the Topshop Joni jeans (who remembers wearing these everyday?) to the re-done straight leg Levis that are everywhere now. because I have such exacting requirements, I usually go straight to Ebay or Depop when I want new denim, as you can find the exact style and size you're after... I've even caved in and bought a couple of pairs from Primark recently, despite the guilt, because jeans are JUST. SO. HARD. TO. FIND.  


Jumper - charity shop (H&M)
Jeans - charity shop (Zara)
Shoes - Vans
Necklace - vintage
Hair slides - Accessorize



When it comes to scouting for jeans in charity shops, patience and perseverance are needed in bucket loads. Finding something you like the style of is one thing (the rails are usually bulging with hipster flares with diamantes and elasticated waist granny slacks in varying shades of beige) but finding a pair that fit? Like finding a needle in a haystack. Because of this I rarely give the trousers section much attention, but I've learned my lesson after finding a pair that I actually wanted to come home with, despite the fact they didn't tick all my boxes... 




I was initially skeptical about this pair of dark wash straight leg jeans because they aren't high waisted. I would be stepping out of my comfort zone, but when I tried them on I really liked how they fitted. I'd say that they were "Dad jeans" because of the relaxed shape, I love that they don't taper in at the ankle in any way, and I think what stops them looking like they literally belong to my dad is that they end just above the ankle, which I think makes them more feminine.
I paired them with this pale grey jumper, which I actually bought at the same time as the jeans. I love how thick the knit is *cold girl essential*, the boxy and slightly cropped shape, and the uncool cricket jumper-esque v-neck. With the vans and hair slides, I feel a bit like i'm off to nursery, but I'm kind of into it! 



I guess the moral of the story is - don't be disheartened when you don't find anything, second hand shopping takes patience, perseverance and an open mind. 
Which leads me on to the second thing I've learned - It's great to know what you like, but try not to pigeon-hole your style. If you shop with an open mind and just try different things, you might end up finding something new to love! 






Photos by Rudi

Sunday, 6 October 2019

You Deserve Good Things!

 Back at the beginning of September, I was getting lunch in M&S when I spotted a pair of boots out of the corner of my eye and stopped in my tracks. This is a very rare occurrence, but I knew these Bellatrix Lestrange/Victorian ice-skate-esque boots had to be mine. 


A few days (of thinking about the boots) later I went back for them, dragging my brother, sister and boyfriend with me for approval. I tried them on (really comfy) and agonised in front of the mirror before putting them back on the shelf, then went back for them and put them back again, before finally, just as we were about to leave for home I ran back into M&S to buy them. Even in the queue I was riddled with guilt and Rudi had to convince me that I wasn't a bad person for buying myself something new, and let's be honest, not a necessity.


 I'm glad to report that i'm over the buyers guilt now as I strut around in my Bellatrix boots, but it got me thinking about why we think we shouldn't do things that bring us joy and why we feel we don't deserve things. I'm not only talking about material purchases here, but other things in life that we somehow don't feel like we're worthy of.
 A huuuge example of this is my blogging/not blogging journey. I've actually had this account for TEN procrastination filled years, each time I started something i'd feel like it was rubbish and not worth anyone's time, I'd ask myself why would anyone want to follow me? or want to look at photos of me? I didn't think I was good enough, and as a result have missed out on a decade of doing what I really wanted to do. 



 I think most people suffer with a bit of self doubt and low self-worth sometimes, but you don't have to be a brain surgeon, high flying businesswoman, or anything else in that realm to believe that you are intelligent, kind and deserving of your aspirations. Start the project! Apply for the dream job! Eat the cake! Buy the boots! 



Boots - Marks & Spencer
Jeans - Primark
Jumper - Depop (H&M)
Headband - Primark

Photos by Rudi



Wednesday, 11 September 2019

(almost) Sweater Weather

It has been a hot minute! I've had a bit of an unintentional break from blogging as it's still all very new to me and i'm trying to figure out how I want to do things. For the time being, me and Rudi have shelved the DSLR (we did a couple of very unsuccessful shoots which made me feel a bit negative!) I'm trying to tell myself it doesn't matter if I can't do certain things just yet - it takes time to learn new skills. So I decided to just use my phone to document my jumpers first outing and I think they turned out okay!   
 By the time the first of September rolls around, i'm always SO ready for a bit of sweater weather and all of the autumny goodness that comes with it. At the moment, it's the kind of in between weather where you need a jumper but you'll be whipping it off every time the sun comes out! I got this brand new Topshop chunky knit off Ebay for four pounds (I know). I can't wait to wear it more this Autumn when the cold weather sets in, the leaves turn orange, and everything is pumpkin spice flavour.
  





Jumper - Ebay (Topshop)
Top - Depop (Nobody's Child)
Jeans - Primark
Shoes - Sue Ryder (Vans)

Photos by Rudi



Tuesday, 6 August 2019

The Sustainable Way to Dress for an Occasion

 I haven't been to a formal occasion since I went to a wedding a couple of years ago, and there aren't currently any on the horizon, but I thought it would be fun to dress up anyway! And while feeling incredibly extra, hopefully prove that you don't necessarily have to go and buy something brand new (and expensive) next time an invite or event pops up.
 The Charity Barnardo's came out with the statistic that people in the UK buy nearly ten million single use wedding guest outfits every year, with each outfit averaging at £79.76. Buying new (and never wearing again) is not only more expensive, but it's wasteful and the environmental and social effects are hugely damaging.
 I know it's not always an option (and you do you of course) but buying vintage or second hand, borrowing from a friend, or wearing something you already own is a great way to reduce waste and not turn up to the wedding, graduation, 80th Birthday party in the same outfit as someone else!






Dress - Next (Sue Ryder Charity shop)
Bag - Unbranded (Sue Ryder Charity shop)
Shoes - Paco Herrero (Mercy in Action Charity shop)
Necklace - Ebay
Ring - independent shop in St.Ives (called Kudos - worth a visit!)





Dress - Vintage
Shoes - as before
Jewelry - as before 




Dress - Kate Moss for Topshop (Depop)
Shoes - Hobbs (Sure Ryder Charity shop)
Bag - as before
Jewelry - as before

Photography by Rudi and Mum

Monday, 5 August 2019

Current Everyday Makeup

 At the moment, I'm all about quick and easy makeup. I've gone from an enormous shoe box full of it, to a pretty hefty wash bag, to what I have now - a very portable little makeup bag for just the things I need day-to-day! I'm really enjoying minimal makeup, especially during the summer months when too much on your skin can feel a bit heavy. I've gone back to an old experimental purchase of mine - Mac Face and Body. I initially didn't get on with it because it appears to have almost no coverage, but now I like it for that very reason. It evens out the skin while going almost completely undetectable, your skin still looks like skin, it's buildable without going patchy, and it sets down so you can skip the powder! A recent discovery is the Maybelline cream eye shadow i'm wearing. I tend to find powder eye shadows don't always apply evenly to my lids (especially matte shades) and avoiding fallout is tricky, but with a cream eye shadow you can dip a finger in, blend it out and you're done! I'm also all about the longevity aspect of a cream that sets.
 If i'm wearing anything more than just mascara, I'll definitely be wearing my favorite lipstick - Mac Creme Sheen in Creme de Nude. It works well with my skin tone and the semi sheer formula means it's not a chalky nude and therefore very wearable for everyday.





Highlighter: Benefit High Beam

Brushes: Real Techniques Mini Expert Face Brush
Real Techniques Mini Multitask
Real Techniques Shade and blend



Brows: Primark pencil in Blonde

Primark Eyelash curler

Tuesday, 30 July 2019

July Favourites

Style... It can only be the navy linen shirt which I can not stop wearing (see this blog post) . I'm currently on a mission to find it in white... 

Beauty... This is more of a tool than a product, but I recently heard that using Gua Sha stones for facial massage can help with Bruxism (clenching or griding your jaw while asleep which causes pain and limits jaw mobility). I have only just bought this set which is a rose quartz gua sha stone along with a double ended roller - so I can't comment on if it's helped with that yet, but even if it doesn't, it feels SO good on my skin. I got mine form TK Maxx, but i've found an equivalent (with free shipping) on Amazon

Blogs... While on holiday in Cornwall at the beginning of this month, I discovered the YouTube channels, and subsequently the Instagrams and blogs of Anna Newton of The Anna Edit and Lizzie Hadfield of Shot From The Street. I've loved discovering bloggers who have a different approach to fashion - where the emphasis is on personal style, re-wearing items, minimizing your wardrobe etc, rather than hauling tonnes of cheap trend led pieces.  

Books... I've barely been reading this month, which is unusual for me, but when I have been picking up a book - it's been Not Working by Lisa Owens. It's funny, tragically relateable and written almost in the style of a diary with lots of sub headings and short and amusing observations, making it easy to dip in and out of!

Film & TV... I know it's taken me a looong time to jump on this bandwagon, but Stranger Things is the only thing that's managed to keep me from watching hours of old Time Team episodes on YouTube. I love the autumnal, 80's suburban American aesthetic along with the acting, soundtrack, score an basically everything else. I get the hype now.  
 Film-wise, I finally got round to watching Notting Hill and I can't believe it took me so long. It ticks all the 90's rom-com boxes and it's left me wanting to take a trip to London ASAP to explore Notting Hill.  

Miscellaneous... I'm a sucker for candles, scent sachets and room sprays, i'm also a sucker for anything lavender fragranced, so this Sweet Harmony Cleansing Room Spray was something I had to get! They're made by my Mum's cousin who sells them along with candles, artwork by my great Aunt, and other lovely things at a local market. There are two other fragrances but I went for the lavender, camomile and rose quartz (tiny pieces of which are actually inside the bottle!).

For next month... In August, i'm aiming to only buy second hand clothes and accessories. I do this a lot of the time anyway but this month i've slipped and indulged in a few high street purchases so i'm going to have a bit of a ban in place! 
 I want to read at least two books, which isn't too much to ask but we'll see! on my list are: One Day by David Nicholls (i'm sure I read this years ago but don't remember it!), A Modern Family by Helga Flatland and non-fiction wise, I'd love to get my hands on An Edited Life by Anna Newton so that I can become an organisation Godess! 







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